“I want, but of course I will not do anything for this ...” - a funny phrase from the Internet doesn't seem so funny when it comes to our lives.
Inaction rarely leads to something good. At least in search of a husband, she’s definitely not your friend.
Stop putting off your dreams for a special occasion, but rather act here and now. In our selection, we want to offer ways to begin to move towards our goals.
10. I want to get married
But I will not seek a husband. He’s like in famous novels: he accidentally collides with me in the subway, looks in the eye and floats ...
In reality, unfortunately, everything is not so simple. It may be that it will float from your beauty, but it is not known what kind of person it will be and in general whether it is suitable for family life.
If you want to get married, start looking for a husband. To get started, make a portrait of your ideal man: write down all the points that you would like to see in your future husband. Analyze the portrait and identify the locations in which you can meet a man.
For example, you want your future husband to be an artist - go to art exhibitions. Or if you want to have a rich husband-entrepreneur - get ready and go to business forums. Do not look for a businessman under the hood of a car in a car workshop.
9. I want a child
An item that flows smoothly from the previous one. If you want a child, but your husband is not ready for him yet, then talk with your partner.
If you are really ready for children, then it is worthwhile to give reasonable arguments to your man and to color all this with female emotions.
8. I want to get a divorce
Living in dislike is the worst torture. You live in deceit and pretense, and you are not only deceiving a partner who may not even be aware of your plans for a divorce, you are also deceiving yourself.
If you want to get a divorce, then it’s better than the case now than there will be. You do not need to wait for a sign from above or a suitable case, you just need to tear off the patch.
It is advisable to disagree with her husband without screaming and scandals, calmly report your decision. You do not have to justify and argue your decision, just your unwillingness to be married to your current husband is enough.
7. I want to change my place of residence
Dreaming of California's hot beaches? Or have you always dreamed of walking in the evenings of Paris in the evenings? Or maybe the soul lies in a rainy but poetic Petersburg?
Many people dream of moving, and the principle of “where you were born there, it comes in handy” doesn’t want to cuddle with soul-throwing towards the city of dreams. And so, stop tormented, take a piece of paper, a pen and sit down to write an escape plan.
Calculate how much money you need to save for moving, what methods of extra income are suitable for you. Decide all the things that still keep you in the city of your dreams.
Choose an apartment using specialized sites, arrange work in the planned city and prepare things for moving.
6. I want to become independent
A lot of work will have to be done on the path to becoming an independent person. But first things first.
To gain independence financially, it is necessary that the work not only generate income, but also emotionally satisfy you. Nervous and unloved work will lead to stress, not independence.
Also learn not to respond to external aggressive remarks. If you hear from your colleagues or relatives that you are not dressing, dreaming, talking, and so on, then learn to disengage from this garbage stream.
Be truly independent of the opinions of others. Do not be afraid to tell these people that you are not going to listen to comments addressed to you.
And, of course, for independence it is important not to be a person following the crowd, it is important to have your own opinion and be able to uphold it, and you also need to get rid of all the stereotypical frames in your head.
5. I want a lot of money
Now there is a huge amount of earnings on the Internet. In addition to the main office work, you can smoothly switch to freelance activities.
In Instagram, a huge number of accounts that need visual design of the page. All social networks require copywriters and you don’t even have to be a specialist.
Choose an activity on the Internet that you like and in which you want to develop. The wider you promote your name and personal brand, the more money potential customers will be willing to pay you.
4. I want to be healthy and beautiful
Everyone knows the formulas on how to keep your body beautiful and your body healthy. Just not all of these formulas follow.
To maintain a figure, you need to calculate the number of calories for daily consumption. To minimize the use of fast food, sugar and chocolate. Note: do not refuse, but minimize it.
To maintain the beauty and youth of the face on the Internet, a huge number of free and paid courses on Facebook.
Thanks to daily massage, the skin on the face remains fresh, smooth and supple. Small wrinkles are smoothed out, the eyes open, the skin tone evens out.
3. I want to change jobs
Change jobs is never too late. Do not stay in an unloved place just for the sake of money or status, remember that experiencing stress every day, you are more often sick, lose your youth and joy in life. Stresses are very harmful to our body, and you will always be in it if there is an item in your daily routine: “Go to an unloved job”.
Stop selling your health and youth. Check job posting sites, take the risk of submitting a resume for your dream job. Even if they refuse you, you will not lose anything at all! But if you don’t try at all, you will end up losing yourself.
2. I want to “find myself”
Devote the evening to introspection: think and write out what brings you pleasure in life, what you would like to do, what you have been dreaming of for many years.
You will find yourself starting to do what the soul lies to. Start painting if you wanted to paint watercolors on canvas from childhood - your life will soon change even from this seemingly insignificant new hobby.
Immerse yourself in meditation and yoga: controlling your thoughts has a beneficial effect on our lives. By learning to control a huge stream of empty information in your head, you can hear your inner “I”, and it will tell you what to do next.
1. I want to travel
Most often, the desire to travel rests on finances. If this is your case, then write down the subgoals of your global goal - this helps a lot to structure the accumulation of money.
Track discounts on ticket sales, they are often sold with a discount of more than 50% of the initial cost!
Search for travel companions can be found in thematic groups or instagram accounts, as well as on specialized sites that you can find on the Internet.
And remember: nothing is impossible, you just need to stop doing nothing.